One of the most dramatic moments in the crucifixion happened
at about three in the afternoon.
Matt 27:46-50 About the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying,
"ELI, ELI, LAMA SABACHTHANI?" that is, "MY GOD, MY GOD, WHY HAVE
YOU FORSAKEN ME?" And some of those who were standing there, when
they heard it, began saying,
"This man is calling for Elijah." Immediately one of them ran,
and taking a sponge, he filled it with sour wine and put it on a reed, and gave
Him a drink. But the rest of them
said, "Let us see whether Elijah will come to save Him." And
Jesus cried out again with a loud voice, and yielded up His spirit.
I know the popular thought about this verse: My God! My God! Why have You forsaken Me?
Taking those words literally creates a considerable problem. What happened to
the faithfulness of God in Jesus’ darkest moment? Did the God, who said He’d
never leave us nor forsake us, leave Jesus when He needed Him most? Does God
have a limit to what He can or will handle before He has to give up on us?
Though God clarified much of the historical mystery through
the cross, there is still some mystery that remains. We read words like: 2Cor 5:21 He made Him who knew no sin to
be sin on our behalf, so that we might become the righteousness of God
in Him. And we really don’t know what that means. How did He do
that? When did He do that?
We know that Jesus was taking on the burden, the cost and
the consequence of our sins when He died, and was setting up the divine
exchange we call salvation where we exchange our sin for His righteousness, but
were those consequences applied physically, emotionally, spiritually, or all
three? What happened between Jesus and the Father when the penalty of sin
rolled over onto Him? We don’t know.
All my life, I’ve heard preachers say, God had to turn His
back because He couldn’t look at Jesus becoming sin for us. God was too holy to
embrace Jesus when the iniquity of us all fell on Him, so He had to forsake
Him.
It preaches well, but there is no Scripture telling us the
Father forsakes Jesus the moment He died.
Of this I am convinced: God
did not abandon His Son. I see the Father like a heavyweight prize fighter.
Ever watch videos of Mohammed Ali? He never takes his eyes off the target. This
was the target from before the foundation of the world. God would never look
away at the most strategic point that brought the solution into the plan. You
don’t close your eyes at the point of pulling the trigger and hope you hit the
target.
And beyond that: In no place in any Scripture does Jesus speak to the Father as My God. He will
use the name God in general, He’ll call Himself the Son of God, but when
praying or speaking directly to God, He always
calls Him Father. He speaks of God as One when talking about Him, but in
personal context, He breaks that down into the three parts of the Trinity: Father,
Son and Spirit.
Why would Jesus, in the darkest moment, change that
intimacy? As kids, when we were hurt, we cried out to our parents. We’d scream
Mommy or Daddy. Never would we suddenly switch to their formal names.
But what about: My
God, My God, why did You forsake Me? If that isn’t about God forsaking Jesus
what is it about? Jesus is quoting Scripture. Psalm 22 is a prophetic
description of the crucifixion in Psalm 22. Jesus was telling those watching to
read that and be strengthened by what David wrote.
It would tell anyone watching what was going on. But more
so, it would tell them they could count on the faithfulness of God in what they
were going through.
Ps
22:1-5 My God, my God, why have You forsaken me?
Far from my deliverance are the words of my groaning. O my God, I cry by
day, but You do not answer; and by night, but I have no rest. Yet You are holy, O You who are enthroned upon the praises of
Israel. In You our fathers trusted; they trusted and You
delivered them. To You they cried out and were delivered; in You they trusted and were not disappointed.
Jesus was helping His followers remember that the
faithfulness of god would remain reliable for whatever they would face.
Why didn’t He quote:
Isa 53:3-6 He was despised and forsaken of men, a man of sorrows and acquainted
with grief; and like one from whom men hide
their face He was despised, and we did not esteem Him. Surely our griefs
He Himself bore, and our sorrows He carried; yet we ourselves esteemed Him stricken, smitten of God, and
afflicted. But He was pierced through for our transgressions, He was
crushed for our iniquities; the chastening for our well-being fell upon Him, and by His scourging we are healed. All of us like sheep have gone
astray, each of us has turned to his own way; but the LORD has caused the iniquity of us all to fall on Him.
Because those verses were personal. They reminded Him what
He was going through and why this was necessary. Until the Holy Spirit came,
they didn’t understand this Scripture. But they could identify with the emotion
of being forsaken.
Anyone watching Him die, felt the agony of Psalm 22. To them
the dream was over, God seemed to be shutting down the new adventure. They felt
rejected. They were despised. They thought they’d been forsaken. And looking at
the cross, perhaps even thought God had turned His back on the Son. But Jesus
made sure they knew better. Because, had God forsaken Jesus, He would have had
to have changed into different God. What would that say about Him? Whom He had
shown Himself to be was a God of consistent faithfulness.
Deut 32:3-4 For I proclaim the name of the LORD; ascribe greatness to
our God! The Rock! His work is perfect, for all His ways are
just; a God of faithfulness and without injustice, righteous and upright is He.
Ps
33:4 For the word of the LORD is upright, and all His work is done
in faithfulness.
Ps
36:5 Your lovingkindness, O LORD, extends to the
heavens, Your faithfulness reaches
to the skies.
Deut 31:6 Be
strong and courageous, do not be afraid or tremble at them, for the LORD your
God is the one who goes with you. He will not fail you or forsake you.
Ps
37:28 For the LORD loves justice and does not forsake His godly ones;
Ps
94:14 For the LORD will not abandon His people, nor will He forsake His
inheritance.
If the Father had
forsaken Jesus, He would have had to cancel all the promises that spoke of His faithfulness.
And the writer of the
Book of Hebrews would need to rewrite:Heb 12:2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and
perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising
the shame…except for that
moment when God forsook Him.
God didn’t forsake
Jesus. If He had, what would that say about us? Could there be a point in our
distress when God would stop being God?
Isa
49:13-16 Shout for joy, O
heavens! And rejoice, O earth! Break forth into joyful shouting, O mountains!
For the LORD has comforted His people and will have compassion on His
afflicted. But Zion said, "The LORD has forsaken me, and the Lord has forgotten me. Can a woman forget
her nursing child and have no compassion on the son of her womb?
Even these may forget, but I will not forget you. Behold, I have inscribed
you on the palms of My hands; your walls are continually before Me.
Paul had experienced
that: 2Cor 4:7-10 But we have this treasure
in earthen vessels, so that the surpassing greatness of the power will be of
God and not from ourselves; we
are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not
despairing; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not
destroyed; always carrying about in the body the dying of Jesus, so that
the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our body.
Paul had been there.
He had felt the same desperation Jesus felt. Pain, agony, desertion, alone. Yet,
as did Jesus, Paul saw in his desperation that God was completely faithful.
Folks, please don’t
think God forsook Jesus. Don’t ever think God deserts His children in their
time of need. Don’t ever think He turns His back on us. Don’t ever let your
despair lead you to deny God’s faithfulness. God never forsakes His kids.
TAKEAWAYS:
- God does not forsake His children.
- He did not forsake Jesus on the cross.
- He will not forsake us in our time of distress.
- Even if we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself.